{"id":4986,"date":"2019-10-24T23:23:01","date_gmt":"2019-10-24T23:23:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/?p=4986"},"modified":"2021-01-12T20:23:11","modified_gmt":"2021-01-13T02:23:11","slug":"intimate-conversation-infertility-dr-cindy-duke-black-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/intimate-conversation-infertility-dr-cindy-duke-black-women\/","title":{"rendered":"An Intimate Conversation about Fertility with Dr. Cindy  Duke"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The story goes that I was my mom&#8217;s fourth pregnancy. She was thirty-one years old and said she thought she had the flu. Her OB\/GYN, who was also her professor at Howard University School of Medicine, told her that her flu would be here in nine months. He also told her that he had no idea where I could have implanted and how I could have survived in her womb, given the number and size of her fibroids. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"http:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom-1024x1024.jpg\" alt=\"1976\" class=\"wp-image-4990\" srcset=\"https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom-1024x1024.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom-768x768.jpg 768w, https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom-600x600.jpg 600w, https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom-100x100.jpg 100w, https:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/socamom_baby_mom.jpg 1233w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><figcaption>My mother and I &#8211; She was still in her residency at Johns Hopkins<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even though my mother was very open about her fibroids and pregnancy losses, I never really thought about my fertility until my miscarriage, which happened after I had already had three healthy children. I had my first child at twenty-three, and my last at thirty. My last pregnancy was at thirty-four.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed-youtube wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Girl Empowered an Intimate Conversation about Fertility\" width=\"1170\" height=\"658\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aRn35gNENL0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption>Watch the video to hear what several other women and I thought about the event.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">My peers, friends, and classmates are all in their late thirties and early to mid-forties. Many have put off starting a family for education and career, are just now having children, or are trying to have children.  I didn&#8217;t know anything about infertility beyond what my mom told me about her experiences. When I shared my miscarriage experience, several people sent me messages thanking me for sharing my story, and in turn, shared theirs. It is such an important conversation to have, especially for women of color.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Related: <a href=\"http:\/\/socamom.com\/w\/once-upon-a-time-there-were-four\/\">Once Upon a Time, There Were Four<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">I live-tweeted from an event presented by Antiguan American physician, Dr. Renee Matthews, and Tobagonian physician and REI (reproductive endocrinology and fertility specialist &#8211; of which less than 2% are black), Dr. Cindy M. Duke in Chicago this week. Check out these tweets, and click on them to continue the conversation on Twitter. Make sure to tag @socamomdc, @drcindyduke, and @askdrrenee, and use the hashtag #anintimateconversation. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Learn more about Dr. Cindy M. Duke, M.D., Ph.D., FACOG at DrCindyDuke.com, where you can subscribe to her newsletter, read her blog, and listen to her podcast.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;Women of color have lower take home baby rates than white women when it comes to fertility treatments because the care is not tailored to us.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187159193318576131?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;It&#8217;s hard to walk into a fertility clinic and not see anyone who looks like you. It isn&#8217;t required, but it helps.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187159691668971520?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Are you a twin? What are your chances of having twins?<br>&#8220;We know the chances of twins are higher in families, but with in vitro the chances are higher.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/invitro?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#invitro<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187160341970669568?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;We recommend one at a time. The more babies, the more complications and the less chance you will go full term.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187160975851610113?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;We know black women often have more complications with pregnancy and care, so I encourage patients to have just one.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187161319113400320?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Main question to ask the clinic when you freeze eggs is, &#8220;have any of your frozen eggs yielded babies?&#8221;<br><br>You want some assurance.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187161679206989824?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Lemme tell you when I heard that you are born with all the eggs you&#8217;re gonna get??? I almost lost it. That means that by 40, you only have 3% left. Freezing eggs stops the clock.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187162210700877825?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;By 30 or 35 you should be ACTIVELY thinking about freezing your eggs.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187162372269629441?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;The older we are, the more eggs you need to freeze to yield a take home baby. [After 40] you may need up to 18 eggs to yield one take home baby. Not every egg that is frozen will yield a take home baby.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversa?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversa<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187162836771966976?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;Anybody can freeze an egg. Not every clinic knows how to thaw eggs properly to yield a baby.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187163050194939905?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">In vitro success rates and babies yielded from frozen eggs numbers are different. Ask for both numbers.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187163391170883585?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">$500 a year to store eggs breaks down to about 3 trips to Starbucks a week.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187163635568787456?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">If you had chemotherapy or cancer treatments in your teens or as a young woman, you may enter menopause by your thirties, so you should be thinking about having your eggs frozen ASAP.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187163957464850432?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">I am having a moment.<br><br>Everybody should know this. Women of color are pursuing education at an amazing rate and want to be ready to start families when we feel comfortable with our income and education. We HAVE to know this so that we can make informed decisions. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187164991063019521?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">15 states have mandates that fertility treatments are covered by employer provided insurance. <br><br>Average ages for undergoing IVF.. <br>White women: 33<br>Asian women: 38<br>Black women: 40<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187165739804958721?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">No one talks to black women about infertility. The stereotype is that we can&#8217;t stop having babies. But we are having babies later, more stressed, educated, working, AND fibroids, diabetes, high blood pressure&#8230; so let&#8217;s change this conversation. <br><br>Whew.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187166329071116289?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;Patients come in with so much guilt because of that abortion they had and they feel that that is the reason they can&#8217;t have babies now, and that is simply not true.&#8221;<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187167352481296384?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Go to <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/Eb5OyWHBUn\">https:\/\/t.co\/Eb5OyWHBUn<\/a> for info in clinic success rates and to find doctors look for &#8220;take home baby rate.&#8221;<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187168040863055873?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Black women have higher rates of miscarriage and lower success rates for IVF. We have larger fibroids and more untreated diabetes, high blood pressure. We treat those and we can get more accurate numbers.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187168477787967488?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Have you heard of &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/eggcations?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#eggcations<\/a>?&#8221;<br><br>Groups of girlfriends go on vacations and get eggs frozen overseas.<br><br>BUUUUUTTTTT&#8230;. keep in mind my earlier tweets. Ask the questions&#8230;<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187169834632699904?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Do they have a high take home baby rate?<br>How long have they been in operation?<br>People usually wait 5 years to use eggs, will that clinic be around? Will they keep up the technology?<br><br>Don&#8217;t just do it for the gram.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187169835677114369?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Companies like <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Starbucks?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@Starbucks<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/Google?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@Google<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/facebook?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@facebook<\/a> etc. have <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> treatment coverage and they are getting highly motivated employees so&#8230;.. employers&#8230;. think about it.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187170379636322305?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Always ask&#8230; &#8220;how many mature eggs did you freeze&#8221; not just how many total eggs they harvested. If they don&#8217;t tell you, you must ask so that you can be confident about your chances to produce a take home baby.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187171081171415040?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Why am I tweeting about <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> and attending an event like this if I am not planning on having more children?<br>Most of my friends have infants or are ready to have kids now. I am 43. My people and those who are considering children in the back of their minds need to know this.<\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187173437271355392?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">My kids are 20, 14, and 13. I want to be able to share the info with people who are thinking about having children at any point. I want my daughter to know her options. So I&#8217;m here. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a> with <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187174406348558336?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;There&#8217;s no one birth control that LEADS to infertility. It may take six months to a year for you to ovulate if you stop shots or pills because your brain and body has to adjust.&#8221; <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/g36RDQz1qt\">pic.twitter.com\/g36RDQz1qt<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187175042251137025?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Two or more miscarriages in your lifetime is known as &#8220;recurring pregnancy loss.&#8221; Don&#8217;t have to be back to back. Patients usually show up at my door after 6, 7, or 8. It is a subset of <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a>. That takes an emotional toll. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187176021180796928?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">&#8220;Number one reason patients discontinue <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> treatment is not finances&#8230; it is stress.&#8221; ~ <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187176276198592513?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">My Trinidadian mom was up front with me about her miscarriages and fibroids. I think that changed how I thought about family planning. She started trying during med school. The stress&#8230; we know now that stress can contribute to <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a>. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187177473689227265?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">This conversation with <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a>. Whew. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/t.co\/B6gLekuKHQ\">pic.twitter.com\/B6gLekuKHQ<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187179514994057216?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Infertility feels the same way in that moment whether you have a basketball team of kids or you have none. Don&#8217;t feel ashamed &#8220;greedy&#8221; for getting help with <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a>.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187180478710898688?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Oh and guys get checked out too, it&#8217;s not all on us. Taking supplements for your workouts? It can lower your sperm count and quality. Even if you took them in your youth. It can affect you in your 40&#8217;s. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/Fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#Fertility<\/a> treatments are for men too.<a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187181284369620992?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Babies from IVF are not more likely to have birth defects. <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/anintimateconversation?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#anintimateconversation<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/fertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#fertility<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/infertility?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#infertility<\/a><\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187181652352622592?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"twitter-tweet\"><p lang=\"en\" dir=\"ltr\">Next time <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/DrCindyMDuke?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@DrCindyMDuke<\/a> is speaking near you&#8230; be there. Live tweeting is done for the night. Love you guys.<br><br>You can also check out <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/JAYBLESSED?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@JAYBLESSED<\/a>&#8216;s podcast episode with <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/hashtag\/DrCindy?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">#DrCindy<\/a> for more info.<br><br>Lemme get back to this shrimp and open bar. Love you guys. Thank you <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/AskDrRenee?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">@AskDrRenee<\/a> &#x2764;<\/p>\u2014 Eva Wilson\/SocaMom\u00ae (@SocaMomDC) <a href=\"https:\/\/twitter.com\/SocaMomDC\/status\/1187183573452898305?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw\">October 24, 2019<\/a><\/blockquote> <script async=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/platform.twitter.com\/widgets.js\" charset=\"utf-8\"><\/script>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The story goes that I was my mom&#8217;s fourth pregnancy. She was thirty-one years old and said she thought she had the flu. 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